2011年1月31日 星期一

Long time no see


lunch with my friends

It's being a while that I haven't seen my good friends from college.

When we just graduated from university, we met quite often.

In the beginning, we talked about how to fit into the society.
Then, we talked about how we dealt with colleague.
Latter, we talked about how be economic independent, and got balance between job and personal life.

Somehow, we all made different choices in our lives.
Some moved to U.S., some moved to Mainland China, some moved to somewhere else.
Some one was in love, and some got married.

Then, we met once a year.
Sometimes, we met each other at their weddings, talking about our lives and goals.
Once in a while, we talked about the difficulty of dealing with families.
Most of time, we talked about the babies, and some other new family members.

Now, we met every two years.
Most of the times, we talked about lives and the status of our goals.
Once in a while, we talked about the healthy condition of ourselves, and families.
Sometimes, we talked about how to raise children, and educate them.


Nowadays, MSN, Facebook, and blog are different methods for people to share their lives, timely.
However, how much and how often would us use them to connect with the good-old-friends?

It's strange that some friends would accompany you all the time, and some friends are just like bus-stops.

2011年1月13日 星期四

2010 東拍西拍. 寫論文的生活

過去的這一年,我拍了好多照片。

從春天的蝴蝶、花;
春天的蝴蝶、花

夏天的蝴蝶、海邊;
 
夏天的海邊
秋天的芒草、海邊;
 
秋天的芒草
冬天的楓葉、櫻花
冬天的楓葉

我覺得我好幸福~
因為這一切得來不易。

因為中間中斷了五年拍照的時間

去年很多拍的景象,
很是我之前都沒注意到的:

鳳蝶、灰蝶、會喜歡特定的花,馬兜鈴啊;

花,一年四季的開法並不同。
有時春、夏天的花,的確開的鮮豔,
但是,冬天的櫻花,也不差;

蝴蝶,夏天多。
但是,到秋冬,還是有一些特定的品種會飛出來;

夏天的海邊,是消暑的好去處,海灘上一片「親子樂」,
但是,冬天蕭瑟的海邊,倒是很能讓人靜下來;

火紅、鮮黃的楓葉,透過暖暖冬天的陽光灑下來,
真的是很享受,覺得,冬天也沒有那麼冷了。

恩~ 風景很漂亮

跟我在寫論文一直「鬼打牆」的狀況比起來,
是超級大的對比。

論文,真的是讓我很頭大,
同樣是研究生的人,問了他們怎麼度過的?
答案大多是「撐一下就過去了」

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我的論文就是研究「就」,一聽到我就想去分析「這個『就』是什麼意思.........」

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盡在不言中吧!

還是很慌亂的我,倒是在拍照的過程中,
慢慢的安靜下來。

在平常煩躁的寫論文的日子,
看著自己的照片,就會覺得:

恩~之前還蠻開心的啊!
大自然裡有很多美景,
下次可以去拍櫻花、梅花..........

寫論文的煩悶,也在東拍西拍的日子
一點一點被化解了