Listening

I realized that I might not be good at listening.

I realized that my friends might not be good listening.

I realized that listening itself is truly "silent but attractive," and itself is a good deed.

I find I tend to talk to people what to do.

I find people tend to tell me what to do.

Not listening.

I find that miscommunication itself comes from "people talk too much, instead of listening to each other."

None want to be back off.

None.

True essence of listening would build the trust among people, thus, they would trust each other. 

It gives power to both parts: listeners and speakers.

Listeners absorb (the sorrow), and speakers get heal.

In the past, I didn't listen to my friends, parents, and bosses.

My friends, parents, and bosses didn't listen to me, either.

Then, the conflicts came.

I used to become "blind" to the conflicts, yet, after Toastmasters training (and age), I know I have to solve the problems.

Listen.

Listen to people.

Listen to my heart.

Talk.

Talk to people.

Speak my minds.

 Among all, of course, still need to be careful, otherwise, there is rumor going on.

 Listening is powerful.